Friday, June 12, 2015

Happy Anniversary Healthy Weigh!


We not only celebrated Healthy Weigh's 25th Anniversary today by giving out 25 prizes...at noon and again at 6, but we celebrated by moving into the next stage of change...Maintenance.
We've had some powerful weeks focusing on the stages of change and here‘s what we’ve learned.

The stages of change need to happen…no matter what kind of change you’re making.

These stages can be represented as a cycle, and it’s mostly suggested that people go through these stages in sequence.  But In reality, people can jump about between stages, go backward and forward, and even be in more than one stage at a time.


The maintenance phase of the Stage of Change involves successfully avoiding former behaviors and keeping up new behaviors. Sustained change…that’s what maintenance is all about!!!
People in the Maintenance Phase constantly reformulate the rules of their lives and are acquiring new skills to deal with life and avoid relapse. They are able to anticipate the situations in which a relapse could occur and prepare coping strategies in advance.

During this stage, people become more assured that they will be able to continue their change.  
Change never ends with  the action stage. Without a strong commitment to maintenance, there will surely be relapse, usually to pre-contemplation or contemplation stage.

When I think about all I’ve taught about change in the last 8 weeks, I've covered a lot.  But if I wanted to make sure I’d given you what I felt was possibly the most important information…especially to stay in the maintenance stage of change it’d be this…
You are what you think!

Your thought life will be be the number one key to you losing your weight and keeping it off for life.

I have observed in the last 34 years in the weight loss business that the quality of peoples thinking leads to the quality of their results.

Poor thinking produces negative progress.
Average thinking produces no progress.
Good thinking produces some progress.
Great thinking produces great progress.

Good thoughts and action can never produce bad results and bad thoughts and actions can never produce good results.

Our thoughts dictate our feelings and our feelings dictate our actions every time!

The question I asked on this 8th week of the Spring Team Challenge was..."Is my desire for success and to improve my life strong enough to prompt me to change my thinking?"

If the answer is yes then these are some practicals ways to start to change your thinking for good!

1. Expose your self to good input
2. Expose yourself to good thinkers
3. Choose to think good thoughts
4. Act on your good thoughts
5. Allow you emotions to create another good thought

If you want to remain in the maintenance stage of change and look back in 6 months with 40, 50, 60 or more pounds off…your thought life MUST be strong, powerful and positive.

You ARE what you think!!!

Our winners for the week: 
Noon: Team "C & C" Cameron and Christina with a 1.46% of weight loss for the week!
6PM: Team "All About That Pace" Colton and Mikaela with a 1.93% of weight loss for the week!

Out HEART winner for the week was Kyla T. with a 2.92% of weight loss for the week!  Great job Kyla!


Your challenge for the week:
  • Download week # 5 "Exercise  and Weight Loss ~ It's a Math Problem" and do the homework provided.
  • Make a list of your Board of Directors or your Dream Team!!
Just a reminder...Glenda B. and my Husband Barry, will be sponsoring the winning teams next week!  $100 will go to each winning Team of the week!  Just an FYI, it might be the week to WIN!!! :-)

You are what you think...You have control over your thoughts...your thoughts dictate your actions! Today was a day of GOOD news at The Healthy Weigh!!!  

Always encouraging you,
Letha

Friday, June 5, 2015

We're Going Deep in The Action Stage!

We are in the action stage of change.  The action stage requires work and a strong desire to permanently move away from what was to what is and what is to come. In the action stage it is so important to ask ourselves “Who Am I?” "What do I believe about myself?" "Who do I believe I AM?”  Glenda helped us get to the bottom of those very important questions this 7th week of the Spring Team Challenge! Here's what Glenda had to share with us.


"Today at THW we worked further on the action stage of change. We discussed how essential it is that we re-parent ourselves, if necessary, to redeem basic foundational principles that we are created and intended to embrace in order to live a full and abundant life.

We were born into the world with the ability and intentionality to express feelings, needs, desires, longings, and hopes. If the messages we received from our childhood experiences, either verbally or non-verbally, didn’t validate those truths, quite possibly the messages we received were:
“Be Happy” (don’t express feelings)
“Doing What Others Need” (it’s not ok to have/express needs)
“Make Our Parents Proud” (you need to desire what your parents desire)
“Longings Are Wrong” (it’s not ok to have longings)
“Don’t Dare to Hope” (it’s not ok to hope)

The messages we receive become the foundation of our belief system. Our beliefs dictate our thoughts, our thoughts dictate our feelings, and our feelings dictate our actions. Therefore, when we receive those kinds of messages, they become our belief system. If we receive those messages, we learn to focus on others and not on ourselves.

Some of the actions that come from believing the lies are:
Being Overresponsible For Others
Controlling Others
Being Rigid
Having Difficulty with Yes/No to the Right Things in Order to Have Balance
Having Difficulty Making Decisions
Taking Care of Others
Avoiding Conflict
Not Talking About our Problems/Struggles
Needing Other People’s Approval
Trying to Be Good/Perfect
Having Unrealistic Expectations of Ourselves
Feeling Anxious When Other People Express Feelings
Not Giving Ourselves Permission to Play/Relax/Have Fun

ALL of the above actions are living in extremes and outside of our back pack.
“If” we don’t challenge those unhealthy messages/lies, we often come to believe that it is selfish to take care of ourselves. “If” we believe that we are underserving or unworthy of self-care/love or “if” we believe that we don’t measure up to other people/certain standards, we are very unlikely to embrace the entire Healthy Weigh program.
   
If we believe that our value comes from what we do vs. who we are, it is unrealistic to think that we would spend time or energy or money to do the weekly homework which includes huge tools to change our beliefs and change our thinking about ourselves. If we don’t challenge unhealthy messages and we are so busy taking care of everyone around us instead of ourselves, we will just be white knuckling the “diet” and our weight loss will be temporary at best.

At THW, we want you to redeem who you were intended/created to be.  We want you to be able to re-parent yourself if necessary to reclaim the truths about being able to express your feelings, needs, desires, longings, and hopes.
Doing so will allow you to be self-controlled, responsible for yourself and take ownership of your life (live in your own back pack in every area of your life). It will allow you to give yourself permission to focus on self-care, because you will believe that you are “enough”, and you are valuable because you exist, not because of what you do. Believing the truth about yourself will lead to the actions that bring about permanent weight loss. Believing the truth will allow you to focus on self-care and personal responsibility instead of constantly given or serving those around you."

Thank you Glenda for sharing your wisdom with us! It was a powerful day at The Healthy Weigh.

Our Winners for the week:

Noon: Team "Dump Your Rump" Karen and Vicki with a 1.85% of weight loss!
6 PM: Team "Losin' It" Beulah and Kyla with a 2.51% of weight loss! 
Just so happens the the top 6 teams of the week were all females!!!  GIRL POWER! :-)

Oh...and our Heart winner of the week with a 3.77% of weight loss was a girl too!  Jeannie Culp!  Congratulations!


Your Challenge for the week:

  • Make a list of "I Am" statements
  • Download week # 4 Coping Skills Feeling Your Way Through Life" and do the homework provided.
We are coming into week #8 of this Team Challenge!  Give it all you've got both in your healthy eating AND in your attention to your homework!  You'll be so glad you did! 

Always encouraging you,
Letha




Thursday, June 4, 2015

Change - Week 7 Team Standings

Team Name       %
Losin It 13.23%
Dad and Daughter Duo 10.92%
RT 10.60%
Skinny Minnies 10.55%
The Meltaways 10.30%
Tiny Hinys 10.01%
SWAGG 9.68%
Mission Slimpossible 9.29%
PTFC 9.24%
The Weigh Out 9.10%
The Right Rhoade 9.09%
Lighten Up 8.70%
We're Not Gonna Bake It! 8.66%
Phileigh 8.63%
One Fish Two Fish Green Beans & Tuna Fish 8.62%
All About That Pace 8.49%
Perfect 10 8.44%
In It To Lose It 8.36%
Freakin' Awesome 8.21%
Young and Retired 8.03%
C & C 8.01%
Big Sisters 2 Littler Sisters 7.77%
Double Trouble II 7.52%
Silver Foxes 7.30%
Cruisin' For Losin' 7.27%
We Got This 7.25%
Slim Sista's By Summer 7.23%
A-weigh We Go 7.21%
Eating Green for Waist Reduction 7.15%
We're Not Short, We're Fun Size 7.10%
K's New Weighs 7.08%
Hey Lady, you forgot your CHANGE 7.05%
Muffin Top Stoppers 6.77%
Sisters-In-Loss 6.77%
Dump Your Rump 6.67%
The Last Resort 6.61%
Yes, Dear 6.59%
Waist A-Weigh 6.59%
Material Girls 6.49%
Razmo 6.44%
The Lean Queens 6.36%
Spring Chickens 6.33%
Maui Wowies 6.19%
TNT 6.12%
The Two BB's 6.11%
Down Sizing 6.07%
One Last Time 5.98%
Nimble Neighbors 5.96%
Changing Our Weighs 5.77%
Keep The Change 5.76%
Waist Line Winners 5.73%
Salt N' Pepa 5.69%
Hips Ahoy 5.65%
A Million Bucks 5.64%
The Woodland Bottoms 5.60%
Going, Going, Gone 5.44%
Sink Or Thin 5.37%
Down Sizers 5.24%
The Slimming Stewarts 5.16%
39 vs 60 5.15%
Profilers 4.97%
Weigh too Healthy 4.78%
Live To Hunt, Hunt To Live 4.55%
Ever Changing 4.37%
W.A.R. 4.35%
Down a Cup Size By June 4.24%
Less of Us 4.11%
Spicy Seniors 3.80%
Bold Resolve 3.75%
Team Rolling Back Time … Again 3.60%
Miller Lite 3.48%
Waist Not, Want Not 3.48%
Choose to Lose 3.46%
Fully Focused 3.40%
D.I.E.T? 3.38%
Pie Hole Patrol 3.13%
Move It To Lose It 3.10%
Deflating the Spare 3.08%
She Who Stuffs, Puffs 2.95%
Older and Somewhat Wiser 2.93%
Dunne Wright 2.83%
Down Sizing, We're Down 2.80%
Belly Busters 2.50%
Number Munchers 2.41%
Weight, We're A Changin' 2.23%
Thinsanity 2.11%
Dwindling Divas 2.00%
Keep Calm and Bring it On 1.86%
Hiking Honey's 1.71%
Guts for Glory 1.34%
10 Weeks to Life 1.15%
Secret Ninjas are back! 1.10%
Under Construction: Building Extraordinary From The Inside Out 0.98%
Another Pound Bites the Dust 0.52%
Off With The Old -0.05%