Friday, September 11, 2015

So just How DO you get out of that pit?

It was great to be back at The Healthy Weigh this Thursday after cruising to Alaska last week. Dan Russell filled in for me and did a great job!   The feedback was awesome and He inspired each one to "set their faces" and give it all they've got! I'm looking forward to reading his new book "Finish Strong."

We talked about finishing strong this week as we have one week to go to end this life changing Team Challenge...Live Your Best Life!  Being close to completing my 26th Team Challenge I've seen a pattern. It's easy to start out strong...but not as easy to finish strong.  Finishing strong takes discipline, commitment and persistence! It's also take constant motivation...personal, inward, meaningful motivation. I say meaningful, because what might motivate one person, won't motivate another. I reminded everyone this week that motivation comes from the word motive.  Motivation...the motive that cause one to act.

We know, even from the experiences that have taken place in the last ten weeks, that hard things happen. Pain and loss and stress get us off track.  We also know from our study of what living your best life looks like, that easy lives, don't make very good stories!  It's not the troubles that we face that make for a great story...it's how we overcome them.

My focus this week was to help everyone understand that we can't expect ourselves to just "get over it" or " start fresh" or "wake up with a new attitude" if we haven't used any tools to make that happen.  I also pointed out that sometimes our motivation can flip a switch in us and turn our thinking around in a snap...but more times than not, it's more like a dimmer switch.  WE MUST use the tools that we've all learned at the healthy weigh to keep motivation alive. Motivation is in the DOING!

  • Journal your feelings
  • Make a list of the pain that over eating has caused you
  • Make a list of the pleasure eating healthy brings you
  • Prep your food
  • Visualize yourself at goal weight living the life you want to live
  • Make a collage
  • Get out a calendar and start looking ahead to the reasons you want to live your best life
  • Make a list of what your life would look like if you didn’t keep at it
  • Make a list of rewards attached to even the simplest things…(getting in all your water today) etc.
  • Look at old pictures of yourself... good or bad pictures
  • Hang smaller clothes out in front of your closet
  • Try on clothes
  • Take pictures
Motivation is in the doing!!!  Do some of these things, or ALL of these things and see if your dimmer switch starts to turn.  We MUST become experts at motivating ourselves!  That's where the permanent change happens!  We spent some time looking at GREAT people who failed many times and just kept at it!   Success isn't about the fall...it's about how we got back up!

I announced our theme for the Fall Team Challenge!  "THE POWER OF HABIT...MOTIVATION IS WHAT GETS YOU STARTED. HABIT IS WHAT KEEPS YOU GOING"
I'm thrilled to be moving into another powerful challenge with information to help us all make permanent changes in our lives.  Our Habits become our destiny, so I thought we better take a closer look at them! We are going to be doing that this fall!

Our winning teams for the week:
Noon:  Team "Working Our Way Toward Blingy, Booty, Jeans", Wendy and Diane with a .79% of weight loss
6 PM:  Team "Dude, Where's My Gut?" Jim and Gordon,with a 1.82% of weight loss

Congratulations  to you all for your consistent effort this Team Challenge! It's been so fun to watch you shrink before my eyes!

Your Challenge for the week:
  • Download week # 5 “Exercise and Weight Loss ~ It’s a Math Problem” and do the homework provided
  • Give a postcard to one person this week
  • Enroll in the Fall Team Challenge
Extra Challenge for the week: Lose 2.5 pounds and be entered into a drawing for a FREE Team Challenge I'll be drawing two winners!

You won't want to miss the Finale next week at 6 PM!  We will be celebrating the accomplishments of so many people who worked so hard this last ten weeks!  We have truly seen  people working to live a better story!  I can't wait to celebrate that thursday with you!

Always encouraging you,
Letha


Live Your Best Life ~ WEEK 9 Standings


Dude, Where's my Gut?17.73%
Working Our Way Toward Blingy, Booty Jeans13.82%
Second Chances13.39%
Flabuless11.93%
Fatties R Us11.49%
Tiny Hiney's10.79%
20/2010.59%
Belittle the Middle10.48%
Lean on Me10.08%
Cottage Cheeks No More9.33%
P's of Mind9.22%
Akers-A-Weigh9.11%
The Right Rhoade 28.97%
SIS8.71%
Size Matters8.52%
Oh Yeah, Just Watch Me!8.23%
Double Trouble7.99%
Mighty Morphin Posterior Arrangers7.80%
The Best Kind of Losers7.58%
The Best Year Boomer Babes7.57%
Fit Happens!7.46%
#losingit7.28%
Fifty Shades of Fit7.28%
The Meltaways6.74%
Let's Do This, Sis!6.58%
L26.54%
Are We There Yet?6.42%
Buns on the Run6.28%
Bedunka Dunk Busters6.02%
Bod Squad5.62%
Thunder Monkeys5.48%
The Double D - Dangerous Divas5.42%
The 2 Lovelies5.29%
Feelin' Fab5.28%
Let's Get A lot Radical!!!5.24%
Date Nights with Denny5.13%
Bold Resolve5.00%
Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger4.91%
Quarter, Dime & Six Pennies4.74%
All Day Every Day4.55%
The Purposeful Losers4.39%
See you Lighter4.37%
Team Badass4.33%
Dream Team!3.90%
Becoming Our Mothers afterall3.80%
Crazy Cousins3.68%
Freedom Fat Fighters3.67%
Weigh To Go3.66%
Melting Mama's3.57%
That's It3.52%
Never Too Late to be Great3.26%
Can't Weigh Us Down3.03%
Skinny Dippers3.03%
Slimmin' 'em rolls2.87%
RAZMO2.82%
The Winners2.78%
Delores2.72%
A New Chapter2.71%
The Two BB2.51%
Wishful Shrinkers1.86%
Glory 24/71.82%
Freakin' Awesome1.75%
Downsizing 24/71.58%
One Last Time1.56%
Catch us if you can1.26%
Making the Cut0.94%
A Bundle of Possibilities0.68%
We're Not Gonna Bake It0.49%


Friday, August 28, 2015

What's Buried Alive Never Dies

Here we are on week # 7 of the Summer Team Challenge! We've pressed into a lot of powerful subjects to inspire us to live our best life. They've been exciting, challenging and fun.  This week, we got a little more serious! We went a little deeper. 


How do you re-cap a day like yesterday??? It was an emotional day for me because I shared my story. But more important than that, it was emotional for me because I am SO passionate about equipping my Healthy Weigh friends to cope and live their very best lives! I  preached this week  like it was easy. I preached it like it didn't hurt and I preached it like we can all just DECIDE…but I delivered this lesson with tenderness and love because I know that life is really hard.



Our lesson for the day was all about coping skills. Coping skills are the thoughts, emotions and behaviors that you use to adjust to changes that take place in your life. I talked about the difference between avoiding, numbing and stuffing pain, and really coping.  I shared the "life cup" lesson which does a great job illustrating the need to process not only the hard things in life, but the day to day things too. It's not hard to open up your heart with a group of people like we have at THW! Although telling my story put me in a vulnerable place, I felt safe and loved. It's wonderful what can happen to your soul when you feel safe and loved. 

I spent most of the hour on what I believe is the key to really being free from using food as our drug of choice.  Forgiveness.  Forgiveness of ourselves and others.  What's buried alive, never dies, so it's crucial that we deal with the things in our lives that have been buried...for some of us, for MANY years.

Glenda did a powerful job in the "after class" explaining even further, the importance of forgiveness and coping. It was good to sit in and be motivated, once again to do what ever it takes to live a life taking personal responsibility for yourself and healing the past wounds that are fertile ground for addictions. Thank you Glenda.

Our winning teams for the week:

Noon: Team "Bod Squad" Nycole and Heather with a 1.68% of weight loss!
6 PM: Team "Akers -A-Weigh" Paul and Jody with a 2.18% of weight loss! 
Congratulations!!! Great job...you guys are looking amazing!

Our Water Bottle Winners for the week were:
Heather B. at noon and Carol V. at 6! Congratulations to you guys too!!

I shared the exciting news about next week! I will be cruising to Alaska with my in-laws and family celebrating their 60th wedding anniversary! Glenda will be in Canada performing the ceremony for her Nephew's wedding AND Karen is even gone next week supporting her husband in the finals of his race car event! Good think Laura's holding down the fort!!  Our Alumni is helping out too!

I've invited a guest speaker to come and rock your world!  Dan Russell will be coming to speak and you won't want to miss out on hearing Dan!  You will leave HIGHLY motivated and challenged to kick in your very best weeks as we end out this summer Team Challenge.

I offered up a couple of great incentives!

1. Be present next week and be entered into a drawing for a Fila activity tracker bracelet and a great book with northwest trails and hikes.  One at noon and one at 6.
2. Lose 4 pounds between yesterday and September 10th and be entered into a drawing for $100...noon and 6 PM!

Your Challenge for the week:
Go through the forgiveness process that I explained on Thursday. ( Start with forgiving yourself if need be)

It was a serious day at The Healthy Weigh, but my heart is full.  I'll be thinking about you all this week and truly anticipating the stories I'll be hearing of what choosing forgiveness has done for you. Living your best life...choosing forgiveness is a BIG part of that!

With love and as always... encouraging you,
Letha

Live Your Best Life ~ WEEK 7 Standings


Dude, Where's my Gut?
14.761%
Second Chances
12.184%
Working Our Way Toward Blingy, Booty Jeans
11.929%
Belittle the Middle
9.936%
Tiny Hiney's
9.856%
Fatties R Us
9.637%
Lean on Me
9.405%
Flabuless
9.281%
Cottage Cheeks No More
8.724%
Akers-A-Weigh
8.695%
Size Matters
8.517%
20/20
8.447%
P's of Mind
8.062%
SIS
7.568%
Fit Happens!
7.461%
Double Trouble
7.253%
Oh Yeah, Just Watch Me!
7.194%
The Right Rhoade 2
7.177%
Mighty Morphin Posterior Arrangers
7.155%
The Best Kind of Losers
6.882%
The Meltaways
6.751%
L2
6.552%
#losingit
6.434%
Bod Squad
6.290%
The Best Year Boomer Babes
6.267%
Let's Do This, Sis!
6.106%
Fifty Shades of Fit
5.879%
Bold Resolve
5.628%
The Double D - Dangerous Divas
5.410%
Feelin' Fab
5.278%
Are We There Yet?
5.152%
Buns on the Run
4.927%
Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger
4.912%
Let's Get A lot Radical!!!
4.905%
Date Nights with Denny
4.615%
Bedunka Dunk Busters
4.478%
Freedom Fat Fighters
4.301%
Quarter, Dime & Six Pennies
4.241%
See you Lighter
4.205%
Can't Weigh Us Down
3.985%
That's It
3.932%
Slimmin' 'em rolls
3.909%
The 2 Lovelies
3.825%
Becoming Our Mothers afterall
3.799%
Thunder Monkeys
3.787%
Crazy Cousins
3.677%
The Purposeful Losers
3.564%
Melting Mama's
3.344%
Team Badass
3.295%
Dream Team!
3.260%
Weigh To Go
3.200%
A New Chapter
3.193%
Skinny Dippers
3.027%
Glory 24/7
2.840%
A Bundle of Possibilities
2.823%
Making the Cut
2.809%
Never Too Late to be Great
2.704%
All Day Every Day
2.581%
Freakin' Awesome
2.533%
Downsizing 24/7
2.410%
Catch us if you can
2.409%
RAZMO
2.401%
Wishful Shrinkers
2.381%
The Two BB
2.275%
One Last Time
2.270%
Delores
1.773%
The Winners
1.476%
We're Not Gonna Bake It
0.490%