Friday, October 23, 2015

We Manage What We Monitor!

We manage what we monitor, so we spent the day talking about what it looks like to monitor those important foundational habits.

Sleep. Exercise. What we eat and drink. De-cluttering. The foundation that good habits are built on.

Monitoring these and bringing health to these four areas of our lives will build strong self-control and help us create more good habits.

And when I say monitor...I don't mean write down all the good things we eat, all the times we exercise, all the sleep we get...I'm talking about monitoring all of it. The good the bad and the ugly!


Monitoring is to help mange yourself. To see patterns, to come out of denial, to get back on track, to face reality, to motivate you to change.

It’s about awareness, it’s about accountability! Those are the things necessary to change any destructive habit.

Changing habits is about recognizing what we are doing…holding ourselves accountable to ourselves and then choosing to change. Being honest with ourselves…wow. Why is that so hard? It’s hard to be accountable to ourselves, and it’s hard to be accountable to others as well.


We should pay special attention to any habit that we try to hide. 

The desire to prevent family, friends or co-workers acting as witnesses, from seeing what’s on the computer screen or knowing how much time or money we are spending on a habit, to when and what we're eating, is a clue that in some ways, our actions don’t reflect our values, or don't reflect our desire to be healthier! 

Here's a little more information about the four foundational habits that help us to build self-control.

SLEEP:
The last 30 minutes before bedtime is a danger zone! Being mildly but chronically short of sleep makes people more susceptible to hunger and temptation.  Did you know that studies show that obesity is more common among those who get less than 6 hours of sleep.   How many times have you eaten more calories in 30 minutes at bedtime than you've had all day??? Start your get ready for bed routine earlier…( and by the way, routines are a string of habits)  Wash your face, brush your teeth, get the coffee ready, if those are done earlier, then “going to bed” won’t be such a  chore.

MOVE:
Physical exercise is the magical elixir of practically everything. Exercise relives anxiety, boosts energy and mood, improves memory, sharpens executive function and contributes to weight maintenance. It both energizes us and calms us!  It’s been called the miracle drug!  Well, no wonder it boost our ability to maintain new and healthy habits!!!
EAT AND DRINK:
Few aspects of everyday life are more foundational than eating.  Food is one of the things people feel the most out of control about.  When we feel in control of our eating…we feel in control of so many other areas of our life!  One of the problems with the eating and drinking “habit” is that our brain needs food to manage impulses. One of the best ways to avoid impulsive over eating is to eat. 
 
DE-CLUTTER:
For most people outer order contributes to inner calm. And you know if you've been around THW for any length of time…inner calm, inner peace, inner healing, contributes to healthy eating. People get a real shift when they put things in their place, tackle nagging tasks, clear surfaces, and get rid of things that don’t work, or aren’t used. This surge of energy makes it easier to ask more of ourselves, to use our self-control, and to stick to a challenging habit.  In the book “the power of habit” the author points out that even the habit of making your bed each morning is correlated with a sense of greater well-being and higher productivity.  With de-cluttering you’ll find that keeping up is easier than catching up!


So as we press into this habit team challenge, I want to make sure that we are really pressing in to what will make a permanent difference. You manage what you monitor.  So whether you are monitoring your sleep and realize that you do better because you’re keeping track, or you’re monitoring your exercise so you take that extra trip down the driveway so you can write down your extra steps…it will make a difference. You are ALL monitoring your food and drink…for better or for worse. Not just on the good days. Every day, every bite. Do it for you!!! You’ll see yourself come back around even if you’re in a pit!
And if you’re monitoring your de-cluttering efforts it will inspire you to keep going.

We want to change our habits and to do that, we've got to build a solid foundation.  A solid foundation is built on the things that boost our self-control.  More Sleep, physical activity, eating and drinking healthy, and de-cluttering! 

Our winning teams for the week:
Noon: Team "At The Corner of Happy and Healthy" Becky and Cheryl with a 2.33% of weight loss!
6 PM: Team "Lose It" Donny and Emily with a 3.02% of weight loss! 
Congratulations to you all!

We are going to celebrate the accountability a team mate brings by doing something special this week for our team mate.  A text, a note, a reward...and we are going to celebrate next Thursday by joining in on the fun of Spirit week and dressing to show our Team Spirit!

Your Challenge for the week:
  • Not One Stinkin Piece
  • Continue the #healthyweighhabits 21 days challenge
  • Come next week with Team Spirit by dressing like your team mate!
We manage what we monitor...it's all about monitoring!  The good, the bad and the ugly!  Change will happen when we are honest with ourselves and others!  

Always encouraging you,
Letha





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